How Much Do Americans Spend on Gifts Each Year? Latest 2025 Stats

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Americans spend hundreds of billions of dollars on gifts each year, across holidays and personal occasions. The average American spends roughly 1,638$ per person annually on gifts for others, according to giftafeeling.com.

This includes major holidays like Christmas, birthdays, weddings, Valentineโ€™s Day, Motherโ€™s Day, Fatherโ€™s Day, and more. In 2025, gift spending is reaching new highs in several categories, reflecting both strong consumer enthusiasm and shifting trends in what, how, and where people are gifting.

Spending by Occasion: Holidays and Life Events


Different occasions drive different levels of spending. Winter holidays (Christmas/Hanukkah) remain the single biggest gift-giving event of the year.

But other holidays and life events also command significant budgets. Hereโ€™s how gift spending breaks down by occasion in recent years:

Winter Holidays (Christmas Season)

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The end-of-year holidays see the highest gift expenditures. American consumers planned to spend about $1,012 on Christmas and holiday gifts in 2024, up from $975 in 2023, according to news.gallup.com. (For context, this figure dipped to $867 in 2022 amid high inflation.)

In total, this translates to well over $200 billion nationwide spent on holiday gifts alone. The winter holidays far surpass any other occasion in average gift budget, underscoring why this season is critical for retailers.

Birthday

Birthday gifts are a major year-round expense. In a recent survey, 49% of Americans said they spend the most on birthday presents, more than on any other single life event, as noted by lendingtree.com. While there isnโ€™t a single โ€œholidayโ€ total for birthdays, many people give multiple birthday gifts per year.

About 39% of Americans spend between $100 and $499 on gifts for othersโ€™ celebrations in a typical year, and an additional 18% spend between $500 and $999 โ€“ much of this likely goes toward birthdays. This makes birthdays one of the top occasions for gift spending throughout the year.

Weddings

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Younger adults often spend more on wedding gifts

Americans also shell out for wedding gifts. According to industry data, the average wedding gift spend is about $150 per guest. (Close friends and family tend to spend a bit more, around $160, while more distant acquaintances might spend ~$100โ€“$140).

Considering there are roughly 2 million weddings in the U.S. each year, these gifts add up to a substantial total.

Notably, younger adults have shown a willingness to spend more on wedding presents โ€“ one poll found Gen Z respondents planned to spend about $275 on a wedding gift, versus only $98 among Baby Boomers.

Valentineโ€™s Day

Valentineโ€™s Day 2025 set a new record, with Americans expected to spend $27.5 billion on gifts, dining, and other Valentine’s Day-related items, stated to nrf.com. This is up from about $25.8 billion in 2024 and slightly above the pre-pandemic record of $27.4 billion set in 2020.

On an individual level, consumers planned to spend approximately $189 per person for Valentineโ€™s Day 2025 (up from $186 in 2024). Popular spending categories include candy, flowers, cards, jewelry, and evenings out.

In 2023, for example, Americans spent $5.5 billion on jewelry and $4.4 billion on special evenings out for Valentineโ€™s, among other gifts, as noted by crossstate.org.

Motherโ€™s Day

Motherโ€™s Day is the second-largest gift holiday after Christmas. In 2025, U.S. consumers were expected to spend $34.1 billion on Motherโ€™s Day gifts and celebrations. This is slightly higher than 2024โ€™s $33.5 billion and just shy of the all-time high of $35.7 billion in 2023.

On average, those celebrating planned to spend about $259 each on their Motherโ€™s Day gifts/outings in 2025. Flowers (74% of shoppers), greeting cards (73%), and special outings like dinner or brunch (61%) are perennial favorite gifts. Notably, 84% of U.S. adults celebrate Motherโ€™s Day in some way, showing the broad participation in this occasion.

Fatherโ€™s Day

Fatherโ€™s Day gift spending has also been climbing. In 2025, Americans are projected to spend a record $24.0 billion on Fatherโ€™s Day gifts. This marks a jump from $22.4 billion in 2024 and exceeds the previous record of $22.9B set in 2023.

Average spending per person for Fatherโ€™s Day is a bit lower than for Motherโ€™s Day โ€“ about $199 per celebrant in 2025 (up from $190 in 2024). Around 76% of Americans celebrate Fatherโ€™s Day, and typical gifts include greeting cards (given by 58% of shoppers), clothing (55%), special outings (53% plan an outing or experience), and gift cards (50%).

Other Occasions

Beyond the major holidays, Americans give gifts for graduations, new babies, anniversaries, retirements, and more. While each of these categories is smaller, they are not insignificant.

For example, 11% of people say graduation gifts are their biggest gift expense, and 10% cite gifts for a new baby as a top spending category (ahead of retirements at 3%).

Additionally, there are events like winter holidays other than Christmas (e.g., Hanukkah), and minor holidays (e.g, Easter, which sees ~$3.4B on gifts in the U.S.). All told, these occasions contribute to the year-round gift economy that retailers and consumers participate in.

To put the major holidays in perspective, the table below summarizes recent spending figures for key gift occasions:

Occasion 2023 Spending 2024 Spending 2025 Spending (est.)
Winter Holidays (Novโ€“Dec) โ€“ average per person $975 avg. $1,012 avg. ~$1,000+ avg. (record high)
Valentineโ€™s Day $25.9โ€ฏB total $25.8โ€ฏB total $27.5โ€ฏB total (record)
Motherโ€™s Day $35.7โ€ฏB total (record) $33.5โ€ฏB total $34.1โ€ฏB total
Fatherโ€™s Day $22.9โ€ฏB total (record) $22.4โ€ฏB total $24.0โ€ฏB total (record)
Gift Cards (Holiday Season) $29.3โ€ฏB total $28.6โ€ฏB total ~$28โ€“29โ€ฏB (expected)

As the table suggests, 2023โ€“2025 have seen record or near-record gift spending for many occasions. Despite economic uncertainties (inflation, etc.), Americans continue to spend generously on gifts for loved ones.

Motherโ€™s Day 2023 and Fatherโ€™s Day 2025 hit record highs, and Valentineโ€™s Day 2025 was the largest ever. Even Christmas-season gift budgets, which dipped in 2022, are climbing back up โ€“ the average planned holiday gift spending in late 2024 was about 16% higher than two years prior.

What Types of Gifts Are Americans Buying?

A stack of red gift boxes with gold bows shows the variety of gifts Americans are buying
Physical gifts still lead, but digital and experience gifts are quickly growing in popularity

Americans are evolving in how they approach gift-giving. While traditional physical items remain the backbone of the gift economy, digital options and experience-based gifts are gaining significant traction. Below is a detailed breakdown of the three major gift categories in 2025.

Gift Type Key Stats (2025) Trend Popular Occasions
Physical Goods 54% buy clothing, 36% toys, 31% books/media, 30% candy Stable but slowly declining Holidays, Birthdays, Valentineโ€™s
Gift Cards & Digital $28.6โ€“29.3B/year, 44% of holiday shoppers buy gift cards Growing, especially for flexibility Christmas, Fatherโ€™s Day, and Last-minute gifts
Experience Gifts 30โ€“36% plan experiences for major holidays, $5.4B on Valentine outings Fastest growth post-COVID Valentineโ€™s, Motherโ€™s/Fatherโ€™s Day

1. Physical Goods Still Dominate

Tangible gifts continue to be the most common choice. These include clothing, electronics, books, toys, jewelry, and consumables like sweets and wine. In the 2024 holiday season:

  • 54% of shoppers planned to buy clothing
  • 36% opted for toys
  • 31% purchased books or media
  • 30% bought food or candy

For Valentineโ€™s Day and Motherโ€™s Day, popular gifts included:

Chart showing the most popular gifts for Valentineโ€™s Day and Motherโ€™s Day
Physical gifts lead to spending due to their familiarity and strong perceived value

Jewelry is a top-dollar category. Americans spent over $6.5 billion on jewelry just for Valentineโ€™s Day 2025 alone, according to CNBC.

In short, physical gifts continue to account for the largest share of spending because of their familiarity and perceived value.

Gift-givers are also upgrading the presentation of physical items. Many now finish their parcels with branded add-ons like Vograce custom washi tape, wrapping plain boxes or clear Vograce foil sleeves in eye-catching, personalized patterns.

The extra splash of color and branding turns an ordinary sweater or book into an Instagram-ready moment, especially popular for birthdays, bridal showers, and small-business โ€œthank-youโ€ gifts.

2. Gift Cards and Digital Gifts Growing Rapidly

Gift cards offer flexibility and convenience, making them one of the most frequently purchased gift types. These hybrid gifts sit between physical and digital formats:

  • In 2023, Americans spent $29.3 billion on gift cards during the holidays
  • In 2024, the estimate was $28.6 billion
  • On average, people gave 3โ€“4 cards per person, totaling $170 per giver

Gift cards were especially popular for:

Chart comparing gift card purchases during the holidays and for Fatherโ€™s Day
In 2025, 43% of Fatherโ€™s Day shoppers planned to give a subscription box, up from 34% in 2019

Digital gifts beyond cardsโ€”such as streaming subscriptions, e-books, and digital gamesโ€”are also increasing in popularity. A notable example: 43% of Fatherโ€™s Day shoppers in 2025 planned to give a subscription box, up from 34% in 2019.

These options appeal to modern givers who value convenience, customization, and last-minute flexibility.

3. Experiences: One of the Fastest-Rising Gift Trends

Post-pandemic, Americans are placing greater value on experiential giftsโ€”things that create memories rather than physical keepsakes. Examples include concert tickets, fine dining, weekend trips, spa packages, and creative classes.

  • 32% of Valentineโ€™s Day shoppers in 2023 planned to give an experience (a record high)
  • 36% of men planned an experience for Motherโ€™s Day 2025 (up from 29% in 2019)
  • 30% of Fatherโ€™s Day 2025 shoppers planned to experience gifts (up from 23% in 2019)

Valentineโ€™s Day 2025 alone saw $5.4 billion spent on โ€œevenings out.โ€

According to National Retail Federation surveys, nearly half of consumers now say they prefer unique or memory-making gifts over traditional items. This trend reflects a broader cultural shift: Americans increasingly want to share time, not just exchange objects.

Demographic Breakdowns

A person holds a neatly wrapped gift box with a ribbon, reflecting gift spending habits across U.S. demographics
Americans aged 35โ€“44 spend the most on gifts

Gift spending habits in the United States vary considerably depending on age, gender, region, and income level. The latest data from 2023โ€“2025 shows clear patterns in who spends the most, where, and why.

1. Spending by Age

Middle-aged Americans, particularly those aged 35 to 44, consistently spend the most on gifts. This group often has higher incomes, larger families, and broader social circles, which all contribute to elevated spending across holidays.

  • On Valentineโ€™s Day 2023, those aged 35โ€“44 spent an average of $336, far above the national average of $193
  • For Fatherโ€™s Day 2025, the same age group budgeted $278.90, compared to the national average of $199

Younger adults (Gen Z and Millennials) generally spend less in total but are more likely to overspend relative to their income. Over 30% of Gen Z, Millennials, and Gen X reported going into debt to afford gifts, compared to only 13% of Baby Boomers, according to BadCredit.

Older adults (Boomers and seniors) tend to spend less overall, especially on holidays like Christmas, often due to fixed incomes or fewer recipients.

Gift Spending by Age Group

Age Group Avg.. Valentineโ€™s Day Spend (2023) Avg.. Fatherโ€™s Day Spend (2025) Debt from Gift Spending
18โ€“34 (Gen Z/Millennial) ~$150โ€“200 (est.) ~$160โ€“180 (est.) Over 30% have incurred debt
35โ€“44 $336 $278.90 Likely but unreported
45โ€“64 $200โ€“250 (est.) $200โ€“230 (est.) Less than younger groups
65+ (Boomers) $100โ€“150 (est.) Under $200 Only 13% have incurred debt

2. Spending by Gender

While both men and women actively participate in gift-giving, their behaviors differ.

  • Women typically lead in holiday shopping volume, buying gifts across multiple family categories
  • Men, however, tend to spend more per occasion, particularly on romantic or high-value gifts

For example:

  • In 2025, 55% of men planned to celebrate Valentineโ€™s Day, compared to 50% of women
  • 36% of men planned to give an experience gift for Motherโ€™s Day 2025, up from 29% in 2019.
  • 22% of men vs 19% of women said they plan to โ€œspend bigโ€ on their birthday to make up for previous years

Gender Differences in Gift Spending

Chart showing gender differences in gift spending
Chart showing gender differences in gift spending

3. Spending by Region

Gift budgets also shift slightly by U.S. region. According to a 2023 Talker Research poll for Newsweek, Americans in the Northeast and Midwest planned to spend more on gifts than those in other parts of the country.

While exact numbers werenโ€™t reported, the pattern is attributed to:

  • Higher household incomes in urbanized regions like the Northeast
  • Cultural gifting norms and holiday traditions
  • More access to large retailers and events

Urban areas also typically show higher per-person spending than rural areas due to cost-of-living differences and access to shopping options.

Regional Trends in Gift Spending (2023 Insights)

Region Spending Level Reasoning
Northeast Highest High-income, urban centers, cultural gifting norms
Midwest High Strong holiday traditions and larger families
South Moderate to Low Lower avg. income, but strong gift culture
West Moderate Mixed urban/rural spread, varies by state

4. Spending by Income Level

A red gift box with a $100 bill showing U.S. gift spending by income level
Middle earners feel more pressure from gift costs

Unsurprisingly, higher-income households spend more in absolute terms. But interestingly, middle-class earners often feel more financial strain from gift-giving.

Key stats:

  • 47% of Americans earning under $35,000 spend less than $100 annually on gifts
  • About 20% of earners making $100,000+ report spending more than $2,000 per year on gifts
  • 40% of those earning $75Kโ€“$99K reported going into debt from gift expenses, higher than both lower and higher brackets

This suggests middle-income families often stretch their finances to meet social expectations or holiday traditions, despite not having the wealth buffer that higher earners enjoy.

Gift Spending and Debt by Income Level

Income Level Avg.. Annual Gift Spending Debt from Gifts
Under $35,000 Under $100 ~30% report some debt
$35Kโ€“$74K $200โ€“$800 (est.) 30โ€“35% report debt
$75Kโ€“$99K $800โ€“$1,500+ 40% report debt
$100K+ $1,500โ€“$2,500+ ~25% report debt

Conclusion

In 2025, Americans are spending more on gifts than ever, spreading generosity across many occasions. On average, U.S. consumers dedicate several hundred dollars a year to gift-giving โ€“ from the $1,000+ splurge during the winter holidays to the steady outlay on birthdays, weddings, and other events.

By occasion, the winter holidays still dwarf all else, but events like Motherโ€™s Day ($ 34 B+) and Valentineโ€™s Day (~$27B) command enormous expenditures as well.

We also see shifts in how Americans spend on gifts: experiences and digital gifts are taking a larger slice, online shopping is the go-to method for a plurality of shoppers, and gift cards remain a convenient staple.

Demographically, middle-aged adults and higher-income groups lead in raw spending, though gift-giving is a near-universal practice that cuts across all ages and incomes.

Importantly, the trend from 2020 to 2025 shows growth โ€“ even when external factors (like inflation or pandemics) intervene, Americans tend to eventually resume their yearly tradition of spending a substantial sum to celebrate loved ones.